The military lifestyle can be difficult to adjust to for any new spouse. Britt Lanza had a crash course in the difficulties of living in the military culture, handling deployments, adjustment issues for her and her spouse. The loneliness of deployments and the resiliency she developed helped her grow and adapt to be able to handle the challenges as they come. She has also leveraged the power of community to have the support she needed, as well as direct support to other spouses when and where they need it.